Tuesday 29 August 2023

Lesson 10 Review: Husbands and Wives: Together at the Cross

 

Lesson 10 Husbands and Wives: Together at the Cross

Introduction

Memory Text: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish” (Ephesians 5:25-27, NKJV).

As Christians, it is necessary to submit to one another, this builds up unity. The risen Christ addresses our relationships and transforms our flawed social structures into a unified one, God’s plan for His people and the world.

What relationship is the most important and defining one for believers?

The relationship with Christ is the most important and defining one for believers.

What does Paul mean when he says wives should submit to their husbands “as to the Lord”?

Wives are to honor Christ over their husbands. From Paul’s statement, wives are asked to submit to their husbands “as is fitting to the Lord” (Colossians 3:18, NKJV). This doesn’t presume a dysfunctional home, it doesn’t allow for domestic violence.

Christ is the divine Bridegroom who?

1.       Loves the church as bride (Eph. 5:25).

2.       Gives Himself as the bride price (Eph. 5:25)

3.       Bathes His bride (Eph. 5:26)

4.       Speaks the word of promise (Eph. 5:26)

5.       Prepares and adorns the bride (Eph. 5:27)

What other element of the wedding does Paul use to portray what Christ does as Bridegroom?

Christ is the One who presents the bride to Himself.

How is Christ betrothed to the Church?

He offered Himself up for the church.

How does He further prepare for the wedding ceremony?

He further sanctifies and cleanses the bride.

What does the last element of the wedding look to?

The wedding ceremony, the last element looks to the grand wedding celebration at His return, when Christ, the Bridegroom will come to claim the Church as bride and present her to himself (Eph. 5:27).

What does Paul allude to when He talks about presenting the church to Himself?

Paul alludes to the grand parade and to the moment of presentation where the groom and the crowd process towards the home of the bride and then both couples and the crowd move back to the new home, settle for a weeklong feast, culminating in the wedding ceremony when the bride would be presented to the groom.

What is the ultimate example of love as detailed by Paul that should be followed by husbands?

Christ’s love for the church, a love that involved Christ giving Himself for up for His bride, the Church, and involves Him attending to her every need.

What other rationale does Paul add to support the love of Christian husbands?

Paul offers a truism: “No one ever hated his own flesh”, they “nourish and cherish” them (Eph. 5:29, NKJV), so Paul invites the Christian husbands to identify with their wives, to be one with their wives and that hurting them is as much as hurting themselves. Arguing also that Christ is practicing self-care in cherishing believers who are “His body” (Eph. 5:29, 30, ESV).

What is marriage intended to be?

Marriage is intended to be a “one flesh” relationship, with sexual unity mirrored in emotional and spiritual unity, and emotional and spiritual unity bringing meaning to the sexual relationship. Marriage relationship as argued by Paul is not one of subjugation but of union.

What is the marriage mystery Paul talks about in Ephesians 5:32?

Christian marriage is understood in the light of Christ's marriage with the church (Eph. 5:32) and Christ’s relationship with the church is understood in the light of Christian marriage (Eph. 5:32). Christian marriage is elevated by comparing it to the relationship between Christ and the church. In addition, by thinking of the church’s relationship to Christ through the lens of a caring, Christian marriage, believers gain better clarity of their relationship with Christ.

In Conclusion,

The understanding of the relationship of Christ with the church elevates the relationship between the Christian husband and wife and in the light of a loving, caring Christian home, we can have clarity on what Christ’s relationship with the church is. I pray that God helps us to look at His example to understand what it means to truly love in Jesus’ name.

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